ayoko sa plastik…
sa plastik na timba,,,wlang laman kundi tubig,
sa plastik na madali masira at mabasag….
ayoko sa platik…
sa plastik na madaming arte…ibat ibang kulay ngunit wla man lang silbi sa lalamunan
ayoko sa plastik…
ngtatagal ng ilang taon, ngunit kapag nasunog ay mabaho
nakasisira hindi lang sa kapaligiran, pati na sa kalusugan,,,
masama ang plastik,,,
ibaon ang mga plastik…
ikaw? plastik ka ba???…
Remember when Meredith Grey uttered the words, "Pick me, Choose me,
Love
me"?.
Indeed, she still has to learn lessons about love and men. Here are
some
thoughts:
The Hard Lessons on Love and Men…
1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you.
Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you
and
does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really
loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship.
There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does
not
love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should
have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past.
Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt
you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare.
He
will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your
simple
mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with
your
ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough
or
you didn’t make him happy enough.
4. Do not look into images.
How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in
school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she
was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is
far
from reality. Do not fear men just because your "supposedly" perfect
ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules.
Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to
give
and do everything as long as it’s worth it. And it’s worth it if the
guy
is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him.
Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of
losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if
something
is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy.
It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s
the
guy who’s calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep
on
calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More
so, he will get annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers
get
too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible.
Call
only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are
reasonable).
8. There is a guy who will value you.
There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and
loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So
don’t
lose hope. Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to
women.
There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not
believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is. He’s not the
sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks
together?
Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.
9. Always be the only one, no matter what.
Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for
whatever
reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he
can’t leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from
any
ordinary mistress.
10. He must respect you.
No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show
respect towards you.
11. If he fooled you, end it.
Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person
again.
12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.
Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason. Nor should you
enter
a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound,
getting
back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You
will
only end up wasting more years of your life.
13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.
Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting
impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet. Do
not
choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks,
cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not
fallen
in love yet.
14. Do not settle.
If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up
instantly.
He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem
to
be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.
15. A relationship has to have love.
Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into
making
the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires
genuine efforts of both parties.
16. Don’t be afraid to be single.
It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you
want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go
out
for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do
not
settle.
17. Be a good girl.
Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with
sincere
intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan
of
spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is
after
you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your
flings
from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you
happier and more fulfilled.
18. Love without limits.
Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some
things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave
your
everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If
you
didn’t give your all, you get hurt for nothing.
19. You will get over him.
Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love
another.
20. Be the one.
Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t hinder his gimmicks.
Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don’t
be
easy. Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.
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